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It’s Not About Winning, It’s About Loving

March 5, 2015 by Steven 1 Comment

It's Not About Winning, It's About Loving

If you’ve ever been in a relationship, you’ve gotten into arguments. You’ve probably gotten into really big arguments. And chances are, you don’t even remember what you were fighting about. Yet things that often seem so insignificant lead to the longest fights because for some reason, we keep fighting on. That’s been true for me and Betsy.

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There’s a Time & Place for Every Fight

January 25, 2015 by Steven 1 Comment

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There are generally two topics to avoid if you don’t want to get in an argument with strangers: politics and religion. In our marriage, we have two topics as well: money and travel. Those are hot issues for us that start off innocently but usually end up blowing up. That doesn’t mean we avoid them completely – we’re going to fight about them regardless. But we can fight about them strategically.

Filed Under: Conflict, Finances Tagged With: arguments, stress

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